Modest bridesmaid’s alterations and bolero

purple bridesmaids dresses with bolero

The work I did for Ellie included modest bridesmaid’s alterations and helping to make a bolero for each maid. Ellie found bought her bridesmaids dresses from the high street. And then had the necklines extensively altered to meet the modesty standards that were important to her. The gorgeous little boleros were actually finished by Ellie’s mum. She used silk sourced from my fabric books for a perfect colour match.

Official Wedding pictures by Chris Legg

I do not normally take on alterations for anything other than bridal wear. However, as Ellie was having her own wedding dress made agreed to help with her bridesmaids too. The work done on them wasn’t just the usual changes for size anyway, but much more extensive.

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How the modest bridesmaids’ alterations were accomplished

‘Before picture’

The dresses as bought from the shop were very pretty but not suitable for Ellie’s wedding day. The sweetheart strapless necklines were too revealing and needed building up for modesty. The dresses came with long satin sashes that tied at the back. So I removed these and used them to create the new necklines. It was a bit of a challenge to accomplish these modest bridesmaid’s alterations but I always relish something that is not straight forward.

‘After Pictures’

I ruched the satin to match the underbust sash and then sewed it across the neckline to create a higher square neck. I then sewed more of the sash from the underarm up and around the neckline into a pretty halter neck providing more coverage. A ribbon at centre back held the new halter neck in place. Lastly, I finished the back waistline with a new ruched satin sash so the line round from the front was continued.

bespoke modest bride and bridesmaid with parasol

The short sleeved boleros that Ellie’s mum made finished the new, more modest dresses.

Ellie also had extensive style alterations to her own wedding dress. You can see more about the work I did on her dress in her own blog post here.

modest wedding dress and bridesmaids

If you’d like to talk to me about having modesty alterations made to a wedding dress you can get in touch.

I have a whole page about standard wedding dress alterations and how to book in here.

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I created this Regency-inspired wedding dress for a Bridgerton themed wedding shoot. I used modern fabrics like tulle, beaded lace and shantung, but with period accurate details like the empire line waist, square neckline and boned stays (corset). ⁠
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I love to work with versality when it comes to my creations, so the dress was designed with multiple layers; the main dress has an embroidered tulle bodice and asymmetric beaded lace skirt. A lilac and pink dip-dyed tulle skirt can be added over the floral train of the main dress for some dreamy ombre magic. A lilac silk dupion 'spencer jacket' with hand appliqued beaded lace completes the ensemble. ⁠

 All these options make it possible to have lots of different looks throughout your wedding day. ⁠

Which Bridgerton character can you imagine wearing this outfit?

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Now and again I'll take one of the wedding dresses I've made, and break down some of the elements. So, if there's something you love about a dress, but you don't know the 'proper words' to reference them, hopefully this will help you out.⁠
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This beautiful 1950’s style wedding dress with delicate cream lace over golden-orange silk has lots of really scrummy details:⁠
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🧡 the opening at the back of the dress is called a keyhole (or you could call this a slit opening). This one is closed at the top with three covered buttons.⁠
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🧡 the base dress is made of a beautiful russet orange silk dupion, with dark ivory lace layered on top.⁠
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🧡 the base dress is essentially a halter neck, with a turn over collar at the front, with the ivory layer providing semi-sheer, full length sleeves.⁠
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🧡 the edges of the ivory layer are cut along the floral pattern of the lace, making a pretty scalloped edge.⁠
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🧡 this length of skirt is called 'ballet' or 'ballerina'.⁠
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🧡 the front of the dress has a line of false buttons (buttons that are just there for decoration), that match the buttons at the back.⁠
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Those are just some of the details of this dress. If you have any questions about anything else, just leave a comment. I could talk dress making all day!⁠
On my birthday, 43 years ago, I was gifted a beautiful name...does it suit me?

Felicity means "happiness", from the Latin word meaning "good luck" or "fortune". Shortening to Fliss is good, but never Flick!

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